Heh, I was reading through your list nodding the whole time. That's pretty accurate, except for #5, which really really REALLY depends on where you are. Where I am, wheeling is pretty easy, basically just pick a direction and drive 'til ya run out of road, I've yet to run into a trail that looked worth pursuing on private property.
If you haven't already, check out
http://virginia4x4.org/, there's a forum there. And welcome to Virginia!
