Well, the T-case is gonna take a couple quarts of plain ATF is all it needs, so no gear oil needed for the T-case.
For the diff fluid/axle fluid, use the weight recommended of course, but for a particular brand, my friend uses Lucas 80/90 gear oil in his, and has not had a problem at all. He used the synthetic gear oil on 84 Chevy Silverado 4x4. I myself am probably also going to use Lucas when I change the dif fluids on mine.
As for brand of ATF, any brand is good, just to throw it out there, Valvoline makes some good stuff.
Hope this helps a bit man!

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