Why I haven't been on lately...

[RageRover]

I hear ya Kelli, and Aaron.

I will tell ya the rest of the gist in about half hour, class ain;t over yet. LOL

I would love to move out to CO Aaron, it would be the shizznit.

[RageRover]

Ok, now class is over, now I can tell y'all what has happened since Labor Day Weekend.

Ok, that week after Labor Day, it was pretty dull, I didn't recieve any calls from Eric at all, as he usually calls everyday to do something, cause in Lima, there is not shit to do.

I only had three days that week of class (my classes go from Monday-Thursday), also Labor Day, I had off of course. That whole week, I just got online and talked with Sammy, and Tim, either on AIM, or the cell phone. I was in a depression almost. Can't believe how my friend would hoe out on his best friends for this one chick.

I know that, some guys will do anything for a chance with a woman, even fuck off all his friends. But Eric, was not like that, not at all. I know the guy for half my life, and I never saw this coming. It all came to me in a freight train goin' 100 mph. It hurt real bad, I have never lost a friend this way, or at least I dunno if it is like that yet. He doesn't admit to shit.

Anyways, back on track. Next weekend comes by, I pretty much spend time mostly with Tim and Sammy, and other friends. Finally, Me and Eric get some time to spend together, working on my mom's Mercedes, the exhaust had a huge leak in it. So we go to repair it, weld in some new pipe. Then we discover another leak, and it is late at this point, so we just clean up and say to finish it next week.

We decide to go over to Sammy and Tim's place, just to get his mind away from "you know who". Well, this is what happened. We start getting a game of poker goin', and guess who calls? Krystal calls. She wanted Eric to come and talk with her, about "things". God forbid it was a fuckin' BJ or some shit....but I won't go there, that would be rude of me to think that way.

Anywho...we tell Eric to stay around and just chill with us. We said it in a calm, and sorta persuasive way. It didn't work, he just folded his hand, and shoved all his poker chips into the pot, and left without a word.

All of us, were in disbelief, we had pretty much just said we would call it quits right there. So we did. We figured, we would let him go, he would learn the hard way.

Well, apparently that is not what Krystal had in mind. She wanted to fuck with us, and hard. She calls up Sammy, starts bitchin' her out like any ghetto cunt would. Sammy didn't even have the chance to speak. So we decided to do the mature thing, and ignore all the calls. These calls came from Eric's phone, with Krystal on the line, came from her phone, came from Krystal's friend's phone...it was retarded how, for lack of better words, DUMB this bitch was.

We got through the weekend, and Sammy and Tim decided to come spend time with me in Lima. It was sweet of them to do that, I had never have friends come all the way from MI, to spend time with me before. Tim was so generous, he is a great guy. He brought a whole picnic down, it was so sweet. He also brought some beer, so we could all just have a nice Tuesday evening.

Where Sammy and Tim stayed was at one of Sammy's friend's places.

To make it easier, I know Sammy's friend's, BF. His name is Jon, and he is pretty quiet guy. His GF is Sammy's friend. Jon goes to the same school as I do, here in Lima. His GF starts here too, in October, so she moved down with her BF at this apartment. So Sammy and Tim stayed there.

PROBLEM: They had to keep close eye's out cause on the way other side of the complex, few buildings over, was Eric's place. So they decided not to fuck with him, and do there own thing.

Well, somebody got word of Sammy and Tim coming down, and Eric heard. So he goes over to Christy's (Sammy's friend), and decides to just have a casual time, trying to kiss our asses or some shit. So we decided, ok we will have a great time, it will be fine. That same night, Eric goes to his place, and Sammy, wanted to try one last ditch effort to just talk. It ended up being a backfire, I should've seen it coming. Eric was too drunk/passed out to do any harm, so Sammy managed to just walk out of Eric's, and go back to Christy's.

Next day comes. I get out of class, and go over to see Sammy and Tim. Christy pissed about something, so I talk to Sammy. Sammy said that Krystal had been calling Christy's phone, and Sammy's phone, making threats, to kick Sammy and Tim's asses. I was in an outrage.

We ignored the calls, and nothing went down. Next thing Eric, barges in and yells at Sammy and Tim, to stop calling Krystal. First off, we didn't call the bitch. Eric, insisted we did. Eric just rambled on, and before anything bad happened, Christy stepped in and said this, "Eric, SHUT THE FUCK UP, AND GET THE FUCK OUT OF MY APARTMENT, NOW!!!"

Christy was a trooper to tell the man off, and to kick him out without kickin' his ass. Eric leaves, and Sammy and Tim decide to leave the next morning. Good idea, considering Eric was liable to do anything, between the time he gets out of class next day, and the time he leaves.

Next day, I leave straight from class, had the Rover packed the last night. I get into town, and go straight to Tim's. Apparently, Krystal had more threats sent not by voicemails, but by text messaging. Bad move on her part, we now have her threats in writting. We could've gone to the cops right then and there.

I decide to spend a good portion of the night there, just to see what happens. We get a call from Eric. I answer, and he asks if Christy is around. I said no, cause I knew Christy was at our former High School's football game, cause it was Thursday night, and that is what Christy liked to do. I didn't say where Christy would be at.

Right after I say that, Eric says, he would check the High School. Out of all the guesses, he picked the HS to find her at. We try to get ahold of Christy, but no answer, cause all football games are loud. We just hoped that nothing happens.

We get a call...from Krystal...she starts accusing Sammy of fuckin' my classmate. Cause over the week Sammy and Tim stayed over, I brought my classmate with me, to hang out, and do some wheelin' in the truck. We hung out at my classmate's place for a bit and took off.

Then the stupid accusation of Eric getting a hand job from Sammy!! We know it ain't true, and this is what throws off our entire friendship with Christy......Krystal said that Chisty told her about it all.

WTF?!

Chirsty just made an ass out of herself. Lying out her ass, about her friend, Sammy....to the bitch that Eric is with. Tell me that ain't fucked up.

We all get confused and pissed.

Then more threats start comin' from Krystal, so we had the options of either leaving Tim's place, and find a place where they wouldn't find us, or call the cops, and file some sort of restraining order, cause I knew Eric would do anything for Krystal, even break down a door or something.

So we knew that they were only 10 minutes away at the HS. So we call Westland PD, cause Tim lives in Westland. We tell them the situation, and Westland PD said they would have two or three cars over there to survey the area for an 84' Chevy 1 Ton, with a plow mount on the front, and three people in it.

We were scared...never been scared like this in my life....my own friend would let this happen...to his best friends. You'd think by now, he would get his head out of his ass and rethink what he has started.

5 minutes pass....I hear tires squeel outside, and the distinctive sound of a 350 Chevy roll by. I get up and run to Tim's bedroom, and look out front with the lights off. And guess who I see? Eric, Krystal, and what looks like Krystal's black friend again. They whip the truck around and park it behind a dumpster.

We get more calls from them. And all we did was ignore and watch for the cops to show up. Before all this happened, we told Eric to not come to Tim's apartment. Eric ignored us. After 10 minutes and no cops, we call the PD again, and tell them that they are here, and right outside. So the put out an advisory to have their units step on it.

After we hung up with PD, ERic and all them leave. They burn rubber like they are the shit. We get a sigh of relief, but right after that, more tires peelin' out, and this time they stop on a dime right outside Tim's front door. Eric gets out and we can tell he wanted to brawl. He banged on the door, and didn't say nothing. He kept banging on the door, and then he left to the truck. At this point, finaly Westland PD rolls up with the lights, and Eric takes off.

Cop follows him for 20 more feet, and Eric stops and the cop starts talkin' to him. Another cop pulls up, and comes to the door.

We tell the cop everything, and all the threats. All he could do was slap them all on the rists, and issue a notice to them, that they are not permitted on the apartment complex's property again, otherwise it is jail time for all of them.

This was last weekend, this past weekend was quiet, and Eric and I only talk about tryin' to fix my mom's exhuast, nothing else.

I pretty much gave up on his ass. He is not right. Niether am I, but when you allow yourself to come and harm your friends, with this bitch you know your friends hate...wouldn't you have some common sense? Right from wrong? Fair and Unfair?

That is what has gone on during the last few weeks, nearly a month now. It sucks...honestly almost brought me to tears.

[Funrover]

DAMN DUDE!! Sorry to hear....... Your friends and you need a vacation..LMAO!!! I am thinking CO or Moab..... LMAO!!! Honestly I am sorry to hear about what's goin on!!! I kow last time we talked it was not so good.... at least now you can move on and only make it better!

[roverX]

Originally Posted by RageRover

IX, I believe that saying 110%, and you're right, I am no better, and I don't think I am neither.

Nah dude, I don't think you're understanding what I am saying... if you have a group of friends that are all pretty good people but one of you is an asshole, then you're all assholes. Why? Guilty by association. Life is like that. The world views you by who you hand out with. Either you care or don't care. Me? I don't give a shit. I have friends that are FBI, La Familia, dealers, preachers, and so forth. I am at an age where I have figured most of life out. You are still young. You SHOULD care about who you hang out with b/c believe it or not, it will effect where you go in life.

You can't soar with eagles if you run with chickens.

[Funrover]

Originally Posted by roverX

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You can't soar with eagles if you run with chickens.

That is a sweet saying.. I am keeping that!

[WCURoverD90]

Originally Posted by roverX

Nah dude, I don't think you're understanding what I am saying... if you have a group of friends that are all pretty good people but one of you is an asshole, then you're all assholes. Why? Guilty by association. Life is like that. The world views you by who you hand out with. Either you care or don't care. Me? I don't give a shit. I have friends that are FBI, La Familia, dealers, preachers, and so forth. I am at an age where I have figured most of life out. You are still young. You SHOULD care about who you hang out with b/c believe it or not, it will effect where you go in life.

You can't soar with eagles if you run with chickens.

Well said X....Even at 22 my parents still throw that out to me all the time.....

[RageRover]

You're right X, what you say there, makes sense.

I am young, I still have many years to experience.

So basically if this keeps going on, with me involved, and the asshole keeps it going, I and my other friends are just assholes....possibly making it worse.

[wolf]

all i can say is Eric is a total looser, cut of any and all communications with him, and move on- concentrate on school

his ghetto friends have NOTHING to loose, you do. They are just looking for some drama to liven up thier misreble lives - dont be a part of that, just try to ignore them and move on, or they WILL drag you down with them.

[RageRover]

I hear ya wolf,

I have pretty much....already have given up...so I will just ignore it all. He may or may not learn his lesson, and it will hurt for him.

So, all I can say when he does, if he does come back to his normal self, is that... "Told tell me I didn't tell you so."

Truth hurts...I have nothing to loose, he does. Not that I care anymore now.

[WCURoverD90]

Originally Posted by RageRover

I hear ya wolf,

I have pretty much....already have given up...so I will just ignore it all. He may or may not learn his lesson, and it will hurt for him.

So, all I can say when he does, if he does come back to his normal self, is that... "Told tell me I didn't tell you so."

Truth hurts...I have nothing to loose, he does. Not that I care anymore now.

Pat just to re-iterate what the X-man said...."Tell me who your friends are, and Ill tell you who you are." Keep that in mind and all this BS drama will go away. I have been there many times and it does suck.

[Capt. Ron]

"I am too old for this kind of shit, it is kiddie shit if you ask me. And my friend would rather watch it unfold, than take some action."

Nope...you're the perfect age!