Window ECU

Ok im having the hardest time getting the wires disconnected from the ECU. I got the bottom one disconnected but the top one will NOT come out. Does any have any ideas? It's to the point now where I can't use my windows unless I put the wires into a certain position and even then sometimes they don't work. I'm about to cut the wires and buy a new set. I just need to re solder the connections so everything works.